Hey guys.
This post is dedicated to all those people who are desperately finding for happiness in their life. Don't get me wrong when i say 'desperately finding for happiness', happiness can be anything. Just like some people who are always living their life in darkness and they can't seem to get out of those misery, that's when they go on strike to seek happiness in many ways be it good or bad. I guess you can't blame someone when they are constantly being so emotional all the time. From what i know, these people fought way too hard to get themselves back on track. They have been seeking so hard for happiness but can't seem to get what they want, and they thought hurting themselves was a better solution. To them, nothing ever seems to matter cos no one cares for them. But do they know the true meaning of happiness in their life? Did they ever try looking at things differently? There are many happiness one can seek, they are all around you and it takes perseverance to be committed to stop dwelling in darkness when you're having a bad time. Stop inviting negative atmosphere and start seeing the good in things.
Well people, i don't know much about what is going on with your life but i can guarantee you that no matter how dull or sad you are in those harsh days, happiness is always there on your side. It has always been there all along, just that people are always dwelling in their misery and darkness and not allowing a glimpse of happiness to be seen. I know how its like to always have to wake up every single day thinking why you have to go through all this over and over again. Not like as if i was born with a wonderful life, i can honestly say that my past is a past i wish it didn't happen at all. Even until now, bad situation still gets in my way. Reality is a bitch, you can't ever run from it. The more you run, the more it chases you to your grave. So what is the only choice left? You fight back. I know some of you will be telling me that it is easier said than done or telling me that things like this happening in our everyday life is not going to get better. But have you tried? Have you ever tried shouting out loud saying:
'Reality, i will fight you. You will never bring me down!' ?
If you haven, you should give it a try one day. It sounds really retarded and crazy, but trust me on that cos i've done it before. I started shouting so loudly in mid-air cursing and swearing at things that doesn't make sense, then i realized that things started overturning after that. What revelation i got from that is pretty amazing. Its just like how you're always dragging yourself to school cos you are so afraid to face those bullies everyday, you are constantly hiding from them to avoid being hurt then next thing you know, they found you then start bashing things up on you like there's no tomorrow. But if one day, you decided to boldly go to school and face those bullies with courage, they would be thinking and wondering why aren't you afraid anymore. Those bullies will hesitate and try many ways to bring you down, but you stand strong for yourself and not let their words ruin you. That's when they will start doubting on themselves, that's when they will stop picking on you cos you set an authority for yourself boldly. This is how you should do the same to your life in finding the happiness you yearn for, you don't just escape from reality and think that it will get better if you just ignore it. The more you ignore, they more it gets stronger. Yes, ignorant is bliss. But if you don't do anything to fight for what's valuable to you, you can't win. Tell youself that you can handle this, eventually you'll find yourself being able to overcome it.
An article i found which i love it so much.
Happiness starts from you. You don't have to be born with a sliver spoon, you don't have to be the President's child, anyone is able to seek for happiness whenever they want to. Even if you're poor, even if you have a tough situation to go through, happiness can heal you if you seek for it the right way. No matter how much you hate your life, just be assured that happiness will never leave you cos you are born with it. Deep down inside an unhappy person, there still lives a happy person. It all depends if one is bold enough to let it be seen, don't let the human mind destroy your thoughts. No matter what shit you have to put up every single day, just keep going and don't let yourself be defeated by such small fry. When things fall apart, it will eventually fall back into place.
Happiness is not something ready made, it comes from your actions.
- Dalai Lama XIV
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