Love.

Hey guys.

I guess most of the human population is pretty sick of being in love again after getting hurt countless of times by someone. Like everytime you wanna have a long lasting relationship, it just doesn't work out cos one party or both parties are always not giving in to each other. 

What i've heard, love is supposed to be an awesome thing. Not a feeling of hurtfulness everytime you wanna love someone. It'll only hurt if that someone you love so much doesn't love you back, kinda feels like you're the only one taking the damn effort in everything for that one person who doesn't give a flying damn about your existence. Each time you tried so hard, he/she just doesn't seem to see it because of how one expresses it out to each other. Then they come around telling you that they can't feel your love and what not. You're supposed to take the time to understand one another on how they expresses themselves, you can't simply say that they are not making an effort just because the way they treated you is different from the rest. 

If you kept comparing yourself with the girl's or guy's friends, you'll be the enemy of yourself. Moreover, you'll start feeling like you're not good enough. Just because someone treats their friends better than you, doesn't mean he/she doesn't love you. If he/she doesn't love you, they wouldn't have chosen you from the start. Friends are also part of everyone's life, you can't simply get jealous of each friend to whom he/she talks to. If relationship is meant to ruin friendship, why not get into a relationship and abandon all your friends? Then after the break-up you'll find yourself being all alone and start complaining that no one's there for you when the actual fact is that you pushed them away yourself, sounds like a good idea ain't it?

Some relationships are indeed like that, they find themselves all clinged up with their girlfriends or boyfriends. Then when it comes to friends, they simply changed their attitude towards you and started treating you like a toy. When they fight with their girlfriends or boyfriends, some tend to go to their friends. When the fight is over, booooom they're gone again. Seriously, screw all these people. Like what i've said in all my tweets, i won't leave my friends just because i'm attached. One does not simply ask me to choose my boyfriend or my friends, i will screw you up to the wall. I treat everyone equally and just because i'm sweet to them, doesn't mean i'm in love with them. 

(Just because i come out of the water, it doesn't make me a fish.)

When it comes to quarrels and fights, both parties need a little time out to cool down so they are able to settle things in a cool manner. When both parties are annoyed and pissed, don't even try settling it and having that mindset that you'll make things better. You'll only release more anger and start screaming like some mad bitch to each other, tell me how in the world are you gonna settle this whole shit? Give each other time. If one is already cooled and prepared, just wait for the other party until he/she is ready to talk. If he/she is not ready to talk, then GTFO! Just wait for their answer and stop popping questions! Just because you got over the situation, doesn't mean the other party have gotten over it. If he/she needs more time, then give it to them.

Stop assuming that they are not making any damn time for you, they just needed time to back off a little and be alone for awhile. If they wanna be alone, just let them be and stop trying to find your way to make things more difficult for each other. You can't expect someone to forget all the shit you've done so quickly, people ain't bulletproof no matter how many times they try to sing Titanium(by David Guetta ft. Sia)They are still human and need some time to think over, stop anticipating so much from one another if you yourself are being so insecure about almost everything. You are not the only one leading this relationship, it doesn't go according to what you want but what both parties wants.

Remember, whatever you say to one another, don't even try taking it back. You can never ever take back what you just said to someone, its like slapping you then apologizing after that. Especially girls, we tend to remember whatever the guys said to us, be it sweet or harsh. If its harsh, you are seriously an asshole. We can never forget all the words you use to hurt us, we'll remember it for life. For guys, i think they're the same. But i assume girls scold less vulgar to their boyfriends? Correct me if i'm wrong, i'm not siding any gender here. I'm just stating my point from what i've gone through, for others i'm unsure. Yours might be a different story than mine, so getting offended ain't gonna help cos relationships are all different. 

Have a little trust with each other, stop assuming like you know everything. 

You want a long lasting love life, then go get it with patience. If it doesn't work out, why waste your time? It takes 2 hands to clap, if one ain't clapping, then stop wasting your effort and find someone who will give a flying damn about you.

ASSUMPTION MAKE AN ASS OUT OF YOU AND ME.