We ain't your puppets.

Hey guys.

Guess this post is going to be a little rant, so whoever is unable to stand my raging post, you can either sit or exist from here. I don't wanna be losing readers because of how harsh my post will be, it can get annoying at times but i just wanna let it all out and not bring people down with me with my anger. If you are able to take it or somehow feels like it is related to you, please feel free to stay on and read my post even though i know 80% of you wouldn't give a damn about it. This is part of my life, so please keep up with me yeah? 

I'm pretty sure most people out there hate to be controlled by someone whom they never thought would have controlled them. Is like you're writing your own life, then someone just came along unexpectedly and change the whole story of your life. Be it good or bad, i'm sure there were a little bit of tough times throughout when you're trying to change for that someone. You know, people all around the world have been telling each other not to control one's life cos you're not the one living it but themselves. You can't simply ask someone not to do this and that and expect them to change overnight, it just wouldn't work.

If you want someone to change for the better, give them time and you'll see the changes. Not control them like a puppet cos no one have the rights to do that unless you're the parent of that child, God gave us freedom to do what we want. It depends whether you wanna walk towards the right path or the wrong, no one is leading your own mind but yourself. So people out there who are controlling their loved ones, do it wisely. You can teach them to do the right thing with the right words but not use harsh words on them to ask them to do the right thing, if you want respect from them, jolly well respect them as well. Just because you got a higher authority, it doesn't give you the rights to use words that can hurt them. You won't change them, you'll ruin them.

For myself, if people control me over my limits, i will definitely not listen to them at all. Trust me, i've been controlled by people so many times and there wasn't a single damn i was actually giving. They expect me to change by using harsh words on me, do you think i will change for that? Hell no. If you want me to change for the better, encourage me and ask me with more polite words. I don't owe you a living just because your identity is higher. Just so you know, i get pissed off when people ask me not to do this and that. I will surely do more of it and piss the hell out of you, cos you don't care about my feelings then why should i care? Somethings i do it for a reason, not doing it for freakin' fun. You want my reasons, then ask and not use harsh words on me.

I only take in words from people who are caring towards me and who use the right sentence on me, i feel that i have the urge to change when someone speak to me politely. If they speak to me like i owe them a living, my ears are forever blocked. I hate when people are so harsh towards one another, feels like i could punch them right in the face. Why can't people just use better words? Is it that hard to say something nice? Everyone's going through hell, is it necessary to make things more chaotic? You might be harsh to a certain someone, but you'll never know how that person felt. It feels like you've been tied around with strings on your arm and people are bashing you so hard, they just couldn't think twice before saying what they want.

I know people control us in different ways to make us change for the better, but changes doesn't happen overnight. If you expect people to change in 24 hours, you must be a genius. Teach a 'always crying' infant to not cry overnight and see if your anticipation works. No matter how much you want a person to change, they will definitely change if you give them time and see for yourself. Using of harsh words on them won't always win them, you'll only make them feel more anger and have that tendency to repent from what you taught them. It doesn't hurt to simply ask them nicely when you find that their answers to your questions are unreasonable, just ask with patience and you'll be given a more specific answer.

One does simply hold the pen of someone elses life, you are only here to guide not control.

“Man cannot control the current of events. he can only float with them and steer"

- Otto Von Bismarck