Real, fake friends.

Hey guys.

Have you ever wonder how many friends you've lost for the passed years you have been surviving?

I'm always curious about this topic, i still have got no idea why people love leaving. Throughout all my years i've been breathing, i can't even finish counting how many ' friends ' of mine have already left me without a damn apparent reason. Even until now, people are still walking away like a freakin' ninja. They kinda just disappear into mid air and expect people to find them back. Seriously, i've got no time for dramas. If you wanna leave, just leave. At least give us a freakin' reason and not just walk away like we owe you the whole world, we hate the feeling of being left hanging like a rag doll. If you got the heart, at least say a proper goodbye.

Reasons why people leave :

1) Relationship

 This is probably one of the most common shit ever. All those people who are in a relationship and started abandoning their close ones cos they wanna spend more them with their significant other, please go screw yourself maybe. No one ever stated that sticking around with your significant other is wrong, its only screwed up when you spend 24/7 with them and forgot about your other friends. Have you ever heard of time management? You can have him/her all you want, but your friends are also human for goodness sake. Some shitty friends just find you only after they quarreled with their girlfriend or boyfriend. Once they're finally settled, throw them aside again. Are you even in your right mind? Do we look like a damn toy to you? When you need something, you come to us. When you don't need, you're in freakin' Narnia. Go plank at the road and do some deep reflection, it'll seriously help you to clear some crappy mindset you have.

2) New Friends

I'm not saying is wrong to hang out with new people, but its really screwed up when you met new people and abandon the old ones. You know for the fact that many close friends of yours have been through thick and thin with you, then suddenly when a cooler bunch appear, goodbye to the old ones. Some people love to have some fame while hanging out with a cooler group and looking good in it, sorry to burst your bubble but you really look like shit. Not a cool idea to leave all your true friends for the cooler ones, you'll never know what are they up to because you've yet to know shit about them. If you think you can get a higher identity for cliqing around with the cooler ones, soon you'll just be drag down by them. Just make sure you don't go back to the old ones once the cooler clique have abandon you, cos they won't forgive you for nuts. But for those who accepted you back, better count yourself lucky and not do the same old shit again. Once bitten, twice shy.

3) No Reason

If you're in this category, i seriously don't know what to say. Feels like you're keeping your friends hanging for so long for no reasons at all, and you can even bear to do so. Who in the right mind would start avoiding their friends for no reason? A text and a call without a reply and shit, how the hell you expect us to mind-read you on why you wanna disappear. There might be some things you're refraining yourself from doing, just tell us will do and we'll give you your space for good. If you happen to leave someone without a clue, how do you expect people to think of you? One does not simply go missing cos of bad times, we treasure everyone in our friendlist so don't go missing without an apparent reason cos its really hurting to other people. You are important as well, don't leave your friends because you want to. You can never be happy if you're alone, you want ears we've got ears.

Maybe is also good for some people to leave, i guess they're never meant to be in our life anyway. If they leave you, at least you are able to know who are the real ones or the fake ones. Some people you really wish they could just disappear for good, reason because they're of bad company or they're just there to ruin your whole life. This kind of people don't even deserve to be recognized, they only deserve to be slap in the face multiple times. Its true that you need to let go of the old fake ones and let the new good ones come in, cos once you're around with different people, they will influence you to do either the good things or the bad things. Chose your friends wisely and not let them screw up your mind with shit, there is no turning back once you start doing the bad things.

Your life, you live it for yourself. Not others.

Don't expect the real friends to come back to you if you chose your own path to the fake ones.