Types of Guys.

Hey guys.

Yes, i know how crazily late i am to not blog for a few months now. Always up with the same excuses again. I have been busy with school, assignments, shoots and whatever a normal typical student would have gone through when you're still schooling. I guess a few burdens on my plate has evaporated into thin air and i can at least find some decent time for myself, (which is now lol). Thank you all for still tuning in when you clearly know there's really nothing nice to read about here, i ain't no high class blogger like Xiaxue or QiuQiu :(

But hey, main topic ain't about wanting fame here. Just wanna share out my thoughts like i have always did and hopefully be able to inspire some of you guys out there, i assume its going to be a long post so....(i want you to stay)

I've been in school for a few months now and i kinda took some inspiration from some of my guy friends who are close with me and some maybe not too close with me. Finally i could think of some types of guys who really can attract me or maybe some of the girls out there as well. So here are a lists of some types of guys who are just so, in a sense attractive in all ways. And no, i'm not seeking attention from any guys out there to read my blog and perform the things that i list down. Just feel that some guys in this world ought to be appreciated and loved deeply, in the right way cos i assume that most men/boys doesn't realize how great they really are in different eyes of the people.

1) A guy that 'Sayangs' you.

I do not know how to define the word 'Sayang' in normal English term. But if you're a Singaporean, you should know what i mean. You know sometimes you will just talk to someone and when the conversation ends, a guy would just randomly stretch out his arm and start brushing their hands onto your head. Not like they are patting you like a dog, i do not appreciate people who does that. Just a gentle brush against your hair and i clearly got no idea why my reaction would be so huge. I wouldn't show it of cos, just explode with flowers inside of me like unicorns are everywhere. Don't get me wrong people, not any random guys from each corner does that and i'll be melting. Definitely got to be someone i know if not i'll be creeping out and performing some wushu on him. This feeling is indescribable, like you'll just melt away and pause for a moment when it happens and of cos feel happy about it. Somehow you just feel the warmness and gentleness coming from that person, like wow he's amazing.

2) A guy who makes you laugh.

I'm sure this is one of the most common comment who girl would give when asked what kind of man would she fall in love with. True enough, it is true. I just enjoy the energy when laughter are all over the room, like nothing can ever get us out of this circus we're in. One particular situation that only you and the guy would laugh about while others will just stare at you like you're freakin' retarded or something. When a hilarious encounter comes about, saying it once will never be enough for the both of you. We just tend to laugh and laugh till we cry, roll all over the floor till we polish the tiles clean. Its just a reminder to me that being sad is just a choice and being happy is the correct answer. Guys who makes me laugh just deserve all the due respect, i take my hats off you bae.

3) Tells you that their hand are touching you at an inappropriate place.

You know sometimes when guys put their hand over your shoulder and it happens that they are almost near your chest area? Well, some sweet ones would alert you on this and tells you while some asshole will not. The sweet ones are truly a dear. We all know how guys would react to things like that, its just nothing to be surprised about. I really appreciate those who would tell their girlfriend/girl-friends that their hands are touching somewhere they shouldn't be. Like you truly gave all your respect to this girl and not let it ruin who you really are and of cos sincerely wanting to protect her because you do not want her to feel uncomfortable at any cost. Thinking about how respectful you can be just melts my heart, (marry me already).

4) Their hand over your shoulder.

You girls sure know how sexy it is when a tall guy just puts their hand over your shoulder(of cos someone you know). I don't know why i like it, maybe it just gives me a sense of security and makes me feel like i'm so little but someone is protecting me secretly in a way. Now to come to think of it, i guess being short got its advantage as well. Most girls would die for Paris Hilton's legs, but will it be funny if some guy with the same height as her puts his hand over her shoulder? In my imagination, i kinda couldn't get a good picture of it. But when i put an averagely short person with a tall guy, oh gosh that works out so damn well. I'm not saying that tall girls do not look good on tall guys, they do okay. Just that my jealousy is telling me otherwise. Some of my guy friends tells me that they prefer short girls because tall girls scares them, like woahhhhhh did you steal all the cow's milk and drank it.

5) Suddenly grabs you into their body and rubs your head.

Quite similar to number 1 but more sweeter. I like how guys would just walk with you side by side and suddenly they just grab you out from no where into their warm bodies and start rubbing your head. It sounds kinda obscene the way i put it but you know what i mean. Especially when their body is full of obvious cuttings, abs, chest....okay that's in the movies. But yeah, you just feel their warmness and it makes you melt instantly like a candle on fire. Truly, like number 4 i feel like surveillance camera is all around me giving me 100% protection 24/7. Its a little exaggerating but this is how i could describe it in layman's term, not some creepy stalker outside my house of cos.

6) A guys that sings and plays the instrument for you.

Wow wow wow, i couldn't resist any of this. I know i would go crazy and roll all over my bed and cry out for help. In my life, only 1 guy i knew did this for me. He played the guitar while i sing and composed a lullaby on the piano for me because i was sad. One of the sweetest thing that someone have ever done for me, i just couldn't at all ask for more. In the movie, you see all sorts guys singing to their girl and what not. And when you're watching it, you can't help but wishes it was you in real life. Let's face it girls, it doesn't only happen in the movies. It does happen here on Earth too, just that some guys are afraid to show it. Truly thank God for such men in this world, such an honor to have them around to calm me down when i go crazy at the most random of time ever.

7) They lies on your shoulder.

You know how girls are always the one lying on the shoulder of their men? If you were to plot-twist it a little, it kinda turns out pretty cute. When i lie my head on his shoulder, i do feel like he accepted when i did that while some would just reject it simply because they are not a physical touch person. When he lies on my shoulder, oh gosh i promise you man its the best moment ever. Somehow it says to me that even a guy needs a pillar of strength, they need something to lie on because they are human themselves. It also says to me that not only a guy can protect their girl, but a girl can also protect her men because we know we can just that sometimes we don't want to show it simply because we want the men to do all the caring and shit. I guess both party should share the same amount of care and concern, depending on the situation. We girls can protect too, just let down a little pride and its perfect.

8) Makes you warm when you're cold.

Be it friend or boyfriend, its one of the sweetest gesture one can ever do. Especially in the movies or in a super cold room, when he just takes out his jacket just for you and left himself to freeze. Even better when he got no jacket and realized that you are cold when he touches your hands, he immediately let his body heat warms you right off. Like there is nothing in this world left to feed me, but his warmness will keep me from freezing in the night. You know clearly you are freezing, then suddenly a warm and gentle hand emerged out overlaying yours. The heat from a man's body is just too attractive, like are you a campfire or something? You're so warm that i could melt some marshmallows and make some s'more for the both of us.

9) Shares their stories with you.

Everyone knows how guys love to talk about their life, but only some would be comfortable in sharing the most confidential one. Some guys could just go on and on about whatever they want to say but when it comes to something more personal, they wouldn't share because i guess they only share happiness to people and forget about themselves. I appreciate people who are so hyper outside when most human would judge them as an 'anti-problem' kind of person, that when they start sharing their personal life with you, you just feel like you got them. Like they are in a danger zone and you just want to protect them because they are that fragile on the inside. When a hyper person shares with me their stories, i just can't help but listen and be part of their world. It makes me feel happy that i could at least be standing outside the door of someone who locks them but they still continues telling me their problems while sitting side by side with a door in between.

10) Protects you.

You know how clumsy some of us may be, like really crazily clumsy. I always think that i have balancing problems, like i just can't climb the stairs probably or walk straight. But in the midst of me falling down or backwards, there will always be this friend of mine who would catch me when i fall. I do not know where he comes from, but he'll always be there like when you're in danger and boooom he appears like a lightning bolt saving you in his suit but well mine was in school uniform so yeah. I clearly do not know how to define such situation, like i'm really thankful for people like them. You know they got your back, whatever shit that may happen will happen and in the midst of all that, someone's there ready to catch you and put you in safety zone. What a charming hero, xoxo.

11) Stay close with you when you're doing them a favor.

Guys do need help too and they do ask for help as well while some guys i know just do whatever they thought they knew and screw up in the end. When a guy ask you for help in somethings, i just find it so adorable. I didn't think that they are useless on why they can't do it themselves, i find such guys so cute like i could just kick them and squeeze them. I remembered a guy in my past school who couldn't open a can of coke, so i offered my help assuming he'll say no. But he actually ask me to help him open that can of coke, i was kinda shock because guys who are not afraid of asking for help is really attractive in a way and i was attracted to it. Another one was recently, a guy asked me to help him draw for an assignment and the fact that he stood so close with me while i was drawing and it makes me feel like he appreciated everything that i'm doing for him and that he doesn't wanna go away until i'm done because he don't want me to be suffering alone. Best part of all, he actually shared his music with me on his ipod with earpiece plucked on both of our ears. Oh gosh, what a gem.

12) Shares funny stuff on the internet with you.

Some guys are naturally funny and they can actually take it to the next level of sweetness. They are the ones who shares the joys with everyone around them, like they do not want to laugh alone but with an army. Its sweet how he comes across something funny on the net and suddenly thought of you cos he knows you will definitely laugh since both of you laugh at almost the same thing. Don't you find it such a dear when someone decides to light your mood in a dark room? Like some people could just be a none living thing in your room but your room is still dark while some are like a lit up candle that occupies the whole room with light and warmness. Such simple gesture sure do make me melt in times like this, and it comes in handy everytime when i'm down.

I still got many types of guys to label, but i guess its just too much for now. Hopefully you guys didn't get bored of it, cos i was smiling a lot while typing this whole composition. There are truly many good guys all around you, but i guess they are all in your 'friendzone' list. Small gesture that they do, appreciate it even though you do not have any feelings for that person. Let him know that he is appreciated, do not conceal his goodness over something you didn't like about him. Everyone got their own imperfection, when you learn to accept them, everything about them becomes perfect to you. Take time to realize, everyone's still growing anyway.